In the middle of the 19th century a young woman, only known as J.W.C van Gorkum married a colonel in the Dutch Cavalry. The young couple had much going against them, the young woman who was Catholic and the young man was Protestant, she was of nobility he was not. Despite this and probably going against the wishes of almost everyone they knew the couple married and lived together as man and wife for almost forty years until the colonel died.
At her death, eight years later, she wished to be with her husband in death as she was in life and ordered the monument you see below. She lies on the Catholic side of the wall, he on the Protestant holding hands over the divide.